It has really taken me years to come to a conclusion that has changed my
life around..and that is quite simply "Leave It"
For years I let past hurts, grievances, let downs, and old grudges really stay apart of me as in my whole persona and who I simply was. It has only been in the last few years that all of that negative layer has been peeled away. You see each and everyone of us have been hurt, or damaged in some way shape or fashion..to me it's just part of our makeup as to whom we will become in this life and in short who we will affect thru our own experiences of " Hard Knocks".
I like so many countless people in this world was very damaged early in life and seemed to attract such negative atmosphere that simply fed off of my insecurities. Some of us tend to follow this path in life at times without it even being apparent to us. So when we can finally see very clearly in later years that sometimes it is actually us that can cause negative reactions in others, then and only then can there be a positive stem from this. You ever think to yourself.."Oh that person is such a pain, and so hard to get along with." or "That guy just hates me, I don't know why"..It might not actually be that way but more what we may be presenting on the outside. In my own opinion, I believe that positive attracts itself, and the same with negative. It may be what we appear on the outside that we tend to attract. Not always but for the most part.
When we experience hurt as a child, we tend to look over it and just accept and trust that it is normal, but repeated actions can often lead to an adult with serious trust issues and emotionally handicapped. Some recover quite well as adults while others are so very scarred that all too often the pain inflicted can be a permanent nature and part of the overall personality. While others may lead very normal and productive lives taking things learned early on and applying it to their future days. Also some tend to learn from seeing others make mistakes and use this in helping others.
But at any rate other than it being a learning tool of what we simply do not want in our lives, negative experiences should be left where they are and not carried and cherished like some precious keepsake.. All too often we use this as a defense excuse not to trust again or let anyone close to our heart. In short "Drop It".. " Leave It" we learned from it, now discard it and move on. Its called life. Sometimes bad things happen to really good people, but in so many ways if you look close enough, in most situations something good and positive tends to arise from them.
So instead of rising in the mornings and concentrating on who is gonna do us wrong today or complain about our lives, perhaps if we focus on the very precious and positive things in our life such as the very breath in our lungs, and that all of us are loved. As there are so many who have things so much worse than we do. Ever just smile amongst strangers and notice how it attracts. So the things that make us sad, insecure or feel unworthy and most important unlovable..
"Leave It" ..
There's no other you on this planet. You are unique and ...You are beautiful just in who you are!!
For years I let past hurts, grievances, let downs, and old grudges really stay apart of me as in my whole persona and who I simply was. It has only been in the last few years that all of that negative layer has been peeled away. You see each and everyone of us have been hurt, or damaged in some way shape or fashion..to me it's just part of our makeup as to whom we will become in this life and in short who we will affect thru our own experiences of " Hard Knocks".
I like so many countless people in this world was very damaged early in life and seemed to attract such negative atmosphere that simply fed off of my insecurities. Some of us tend to follow this path in life at times without it even being apparent to us. So when we can finally see very clearly in later years that sometimes it is actually us that can cause negative reactions in others, then and only then can there be a positive stem from this. You ever think to yourself.."Oh that person is such a pain, and so hard to get along with." or "That guy just hates me, I don't know why"..It might not actually be that way but more what we may be presenting on the outside. In my own opinion, I believe that positive attracts itself, and the same with negative. It may be what we appear on the outside that we tend to attract. Not always but for the most part.
When we experience hurt as a child, we tend to look over it and just accept and trust that it is normal, but repeated actions can often lead to an adult with serious trust issues and emotionally handicapped. Some recover quite well as adults while others are so very scarred that all too often the pain inflicted can be a permanent nature and part of the overall personality. While others may lead very normal and productive lives taking things learned early on and applying it to their future days. Also some tend to learn from seeing others make mistakes and use this in helping others.
But at any rate other than it being a learning tool of what we simply do not want in our lives, negative experiences should be left where they are and not carried and cherished like some precious keepsake.. All too often we use this as a defense excuse not to trust again or let anyone close to our heart. In short "Drop It".. " Leave It" we learned from it, now discard it and move on. Its called life. Sometimes bad things happen to really good people, but in so many ways if you look close enough, in most situations something good and positive tends to arise from them.
So instead of rising in the mornings and concentrating on who is gonna do us wrong today or complain about our lives, perhaps if we focus on the very precious and positive things in our life such as the very breath in our lungs, and that all of us are loved. As there are so many who have things so much worse than we do. Ever just smile amongst strangers and notice how it attracts. So the things that make us sad, insecure or feel unworthy and most important unlovable..
"Leave It" ..
There's no other you on this planet. You are unique and ...You are beautiful just in who you are!!
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